Sunday, March 1, 2020

Cross Roads: The Road of Forgiveness



Our Text this morning is 
Psalm 32
As we come down from the mount of transfiguration following Jesus as he sets his face toward Jerusalem, we find ourselves on a journey, walking along a path, traveling down a road. It is a road which has the glory of the transfiguration behind us, which is a reminder of who Jesus is and gives us a glimpse of what his purpose might be. It is also a road which leads us directly into darkness; toward Jesus’ anguish in Gethsemane, his betrayal, his trail and ultimately the cross. We journey along this path as we follow Jesus, but who in their right mind would walk so directly, so resolutely, so defiantly into the oppressive, swirling maelstrom which obscures this journey’s end. We travel down this road because we are following Christ; because he has turned to us and said, ‘Take up your cross and follow me.” And so we follow, not always knowing what that might mean, not entirely realizing what our cross might be.
This week as we have moved from the Season of Epiphany into the season of Lent several of us participated in an Ash Wednesday service in which we took the mark of the cross upon our foreheads, thus allowing ourselves to be marked by Christ, by Christ’s cross. We allowed ourselves to be physically marked, symbolically aligning ourselves with Christ and his cross. The cross on our heads, marked as belonging to Christ. Humbly bearing his cross, we go into the Lent, marked as belonging to Jesus.
In a world which is so hung up on identity. In which who we are is labeled and defined, so carefully. We, in this country, are labelled this week as Democrats, or Republicans, liberals or conservatives. In this days in particular, we define ourselves by who we want to vote for. But at others time and more frequently, we are labeled by our skin color black or white; by our place of origin Asian, Central American, Caribbean, West Indian; a mid-west boy or an East Coast gal. In lent as we follow Christ we are reminded as followers of Christ, as disciples of Jesus, our identity is not found in our political party, or where we are from or in any of the myriad of other things in which our culture claims we find our identity. As Christians we find our identity in Christ.
As we walked out of the services we attended on Wednesday, we came out marked with the cross of Christ, a physical sign to all the world that our ultimate identity is found in Christ – crucified. We were labeled, marked with the sign of Christ, as Christ-ians.
So with our crosses and our identities firmly in mind we follow, we journey together with Jesus Christ our Lord into this Lenten season. This season I want you to imagine our Lenten journey as an actual road on which we will travel with Christ toward his cross. This road intersects several other roads along the way, crossroads. Each of these crossroads we encounter bear the words and themes of a Psalm. Each Psalm a reminder of what it means to follow the One who leads us on this road. This Sunday we come to our first crossroad, and it is the crossroad of confession and forgiveness.
Lent is a season of confession, of repentance, penance and ultimately forgiveness. As Nazarenes we do not talk very much about our need for confession. It is easy to conclude that those of us who live holy lives reflecting the character of God, who live in sinless perfection, are people with nothing to confess and therefore no need to for confession. Yet, here in this passage the Psalmist describes holiness of heart and life here for us. To be holy is to live in God’s forgiveness. To be holy as the Psalmist here is holy, is to be washed clean of our iniquity, because we confessed our sins to the Lord, and God has in turn forgiven us. The Lord finds not deceit, no sin in us, because we have come to God, confessed, repented of our sin and have been forgiven.
Part of living a life of holiness or Christian perfection is recognizing when we have fallen short of the glory of God, when we have not loved as we are called to love by Jesus when he instructed us about the greatest commandments; to love God with all of who we are, as well as others in the world around us. Even the most sanctified among us turns to a loved one with a sharp tone or an unforgiving manner; our leaders who teach and preach holiness of heart and life, say things which are hurtful or dismissive, even our pastors sometimes fail to always show the love and gentleness of Christ in all our actions.
When we do these things, when we fail to reflect the heart of Christ, or live out the will of the Father in all things, at all times, there is but one thing to be done, confess. The Psalmist tells us this. Any attempt to keep silent results in only our own pain. Ignoring our failings, denying our shortcomings and dismissing ours sins not only does harm to others who are affected by them, but in doing so, we are doing harm to ourselves. Studies have actually shown that pent up shame and guilt physically hurts us, our muscles tighten up, our backs, necks and joints hurt, our stomachs cramp, we lose energy and some people can actually feel sick from the harm guilt and shame brings upon their bodies. The Psalmist says, “my strength was dried up.” Sin affects every part of our being.
When we find that we have failed to be the people God is calling us to be, when we find that we are improperly reflecting the image of God, misrepresenting Christ’s character and who he is in our words or in our actions, when we find our sins affecting our mind and our bodies, there are three steps which must be taken to bring us healing. The first two are to be taken by us and the third can only be taken by another. They are confession, penance and forgiveness.
To relieve ourselves of the burden of sin we must begin with confession; that is admitting our wrong, owning up to the ways in which we have failed God, the ways we have done harm to others. Actually say it, put words how you have fallen short, to the things you have done, the ways you have hurt others and skirted the call of God on your everyday life. Confess to God the ways you have failed God and others. This is the first step toward what the Psalmist would call happiness or joy.
Confession does not come easy to us. We do not like to admit to ourselves much less to others when we are wrong or when we have done wrong. Often it takes more humility than many of us have to say to say to another “I am wrong.” “I have failed you.” “I see my actions, my words, my doings have harmed you.” Sometimes it is too much for us to say, “I am sorry.” Whenever we fall short of loving God with all of who we are, or in not loving our neighbor with the love which God has shown to us, we need to confess our failing to God and to whomever we have hurt.
As we journey to be the people God is calling us to be God will show us how we are falling short. God will reveal to us the ways we could be more like Jesus, how we can better reflect the love of Christ in our lives, and often God will do so by showing us where we have gone wrong, how we have failed, and where we are in need of correction. When God does this, we need to confess to these shortcomings, to these failings, to the wrong we have committed. to refuse to confess is to refuse to be forgiven. What is not confessed is not forgiven.
Confession is not something we as Protestants excel. Luther’s glorious ideal of the priesthood of all believers allowed us to understand, we do not need a priest to hear our sins, in order for them to be forgiven. But in coming to this understanding, we not only rid ourselves of the need of a priest, but we inadvertently forgot our need for confession. When we took away the designated confessor, we took away confession. This was not the plan, but it has far too often been the result. It is true, we do not need to go to a member of the clergy with our confession in order to be forgiven by God, but we do need to be willing and ready to confess our sins, our failings, all the ways fail to be the people God calls us to be to one another, as well as to God.
Next we need to take the step of penance; that is doing what needs to be done to make things right, to work to fix the wrong which has been done and partner with God to do better as we continue our journey of holiness of heart and life. If we have harmed another person in our sin, part of making things right with God is making things right that person. This means we must admit to them that we realize we have hurt them. Confess our failing, apologize, and ask what we can do to attempt to fix what we have done. Sometimes the answer is nothing, the only restitution, the only penance which can be done is the act of admitting our negligence or cruelty. The fact of the matter is sometimes things cannot be undone and the harm cannot be repaired. Other times there may be things which will need to be done to make things right; steps we can take to restore relationship with the one we have harmed, to undo the wrongs we have committed. Sometime there are ways we can fix what we have broken. And it is our responsibility to do what needs to be done this is how we begin to mend the relationship our sin has cause to be broken. As God works with us to mend relationship with others, God is also working with us to mend relationship with us.  Breaking half of the two greatest commandments of loving God and loving others, breaks the whole.  In penance we do the work which needs to be done to mend our relationship with God and with us others, thus allowing forgiveness to do its work in us.
The final step of forgiveness, is not ours to take, it can only be done by someone else. We come to God humbly and we confess the ways we have fallen short of being who God has called us to be, what then does God do? When we repent, when we confess, what is God’s response to our sin, our failings, our wrongdoings? Each and everything time, no matter the sin, no matter how deep the wrong, no matter how far we have strayed, God’s response always and forever is to turn to us with forgiveness. No matter what, each and every time, always and forever, when we reach toward God in confession and repentance God reaches back in love and mercy with the outstretched arm of forgiveness. The Psalmist says, “I will confess my sin to the Lord” and you forgave the guild to my sin. Selah! Praise be to the Lord God! Forgiveness is always God’s first response to us when we confess. And we stand pure and holy, washed clean, before God.
When we live in holy relationship with God, God is always reaching to us loving us and forgiving us, bringing us closer and closer, daily transforming us into God’s own image. Each time this is done, we look a little more like God, each time we come away better reflecting the character of God in our heart and in our life. We are holy as God is holy, in our confession because even as we confess, we are once again being remade into the image of God. God makes us holy through forgiveness, in our greatest weakness the glory of God shines most clearly. In the moment of our confession and forgiveness, when God’s grace surrounds us, the holiness of God is seen in us and through us. When we confess and are forgiven we, God’s mercy and grace is revealed in us.
The Psalmist says rejoice with me, we hear this same sentiment in the parable of the lost sheep, coin and son, when each one is found, friends and neighbors are called together to rejoice together, because one who was lost has been found. When we fail, when we sin, our first inclination, (and I think this is especially so for us “holiness folk” – since we are not “suppose to” sin in our everyday lives) to hide our sin, and even though we may confess and find forgiveness with God, we do not share our failings and therefore our forgiveness with others. But here in this Psalm (and also in Jesus’ parable) we see that forgiveness is declared, the happiness which the forgiven one finds in being forgiven is shared, others are called to join in to share the joy so that everyone may rejoice with the one who have found God’s grace and  mercy.
When we are forgiven we declare to the world God is holy and in God’s holiness God forgives. Our lives become a testimony to the goodness, the grace and the mercy of God. Our lives become a witness to the very fact that God forgives. When we are forgiven, we should not be ashamed that we stood in need of forgiveness but should give testimony to the grace of God in our lives. By humbly allowing others to see that we have failed to be who God has called us to be, we are reflecting God’s holiness by revealing God’s forgiveness to the world.
Holiness folk claim to live in the “sinless perfection” we reflect God’s image by living out God’s holiness in our hearts and in our lives and we do his because we allow God to align our will, to that of God’s, through sanctification our desires become God’s desire, our hearts become the very heart of God. This is done by God in an instant and over the course of our lifetime. Daily we move closer and closer to God. Each day we look more and like God, our character is, overtime, remade over so that it resembles the very character of God, it is a process that is begun in an instance.
Holiness is a process that is done and redone, made and remade. Re-done and re-made because in our moving closer to God, in our becoming to be more like Christ, we are able to more and more clearly see in what way we could be more like Christ. As our holiness increases we can see how much we are like a cracked mirror, improperly reflecting who Christ is to the world around us. When we realize our shortcomings when it comes to how much we are and are not like Christ in all that we are, when we see the crack for what it is, we then, in our holiness, come to God and confess that we are not as holy as we could be and in asking for God’s forgiveness become a little more holy, we come to look more like Christ, in the very act of confession we are living out holiness of heart and life.
So as we encounter this Psalm today, let us hear the voice of God calling us to holiness, calling us to be like Jesus in all things. Let us see our lives as they truly are, see how very much we like Christ, see all the ways God is allowing us to reflect God’s image in all that we are, in all that we so and in all that we say. But let us also see ourselves in all honestly, and in a very holy way, see in what ways our failings need to be un-made, so that we can be re-made to closer resemble Christ-like perfection.
Let us today be the holy people God is calling us to be and thus allow God to show us our failings, our shortcomings, nae even our sins, so that we may confess them to God, allow God to show us to whom we need to go to make restitution, apologize and work to make things right, so that we can continue to be just a little more holy today than we were yesterday. And let us turn to one another to day and say, without shame in our failing, but in the joy we have in knowing God’s mercy, “I am forgiven!” “Rejoice with me, God has washed away my sin, and allowing me to be Holy as God is holy.” And let us go from here filled with God’s spirit, reflecting God’s image, holy as Christ is holy, living Christ-like perfection in our everyday lives



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